And one more thing before we get going...

A few more introductory remarks.

I am not here to share personal stories about my dating life. I want to raise issues on dating that I feel are important and hopefully spur healthy debate in the comments. If anyone is interested in sharing a good dating story, my friend just started a site for that specific purpose. Check it out on the sidebar. I've also linked to Only Simchas on the sidebar, because at the end of the day, that's what this is all about, right? ;-)

I think things here should stay as anonymous as possible. I really hope we can get both the male and female perspective on these issues. Therefore, I will allow anonymous comments, but please feel free to identify yourself as guy or gal if you so choose.